New Book

If You Can’t Take the Heat

 

Paperback available March 11, 2025!

Available now in hardcover, e-book and audiobook.

If You Can't Take the Heat book cover

“Raw, revealing and relatable.” – BookPage (starred review)

“Following in the footsteps of culinary memoirists such as Nora Ephron and Laurie Colwin, DeRuiter has honed a perfect recipe for the food essay.” – Saveur

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While you’re waiting…check out my first book:

All Over The Place book cover

All Over The Place

Adventures in Travel, True Love, and Petty Theft

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Posted in: Food, Random Musings

Despite my numerous protestations, several letters to the editor, and one shockingly well-funded Kickstarter, Thanksgiving is somehow upon us again. If you are anything like me (clinically depressed and awesome), you are wondering how we ended up here again. In my case, I assume it’s punishment for the time I said Vince Vaughn was “kind…

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Goodreads Reviews I Left for Myself While Writing My Book

Posted on
Feb 26, 2024
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Posted in: Book, Uncategorized

  ★★★ Idea Has Potential. I don’t hate the idea of this book. It feels like the author (full disclosure: it me) doesn’t really have a clear idea of it, and instead of writing the book they keep getting distracted and reading about dysfunctional relationships on reddit. I keep calling it a “book proposal” even…

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A Dry January, All Year Long.

Posted on
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Posted in: Food, Personal Essay

People keep reminding me it is January. I consider this an act of aggression. I keep writing “October” on all my checks. I also keep writing 1997. I also keep writing checks? What the hell is even going on with January, anyway? How can a January ever possibly feel normal? The year just started; the…

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